How does LOVE taste for you? Like a juicy watermelon slice that is sweet and refreshing? Like nutella that you want to stop eating but you can’t help yourself? Or is it like french fries? it is not good for you, but tastes so good. I think for me it is like the sweet-sour sauce. Self explaining: sweeeeet, but souuuur at the same time..
That brings many questions. What is love? People are asking this question for ages. I can not just answer in one stupid blog of mine. But I am curious… very curios… What do we want from a good, average relationship? What makes a dream couple?
Do we need to be each other’s Marks and Spencer? or is it ok if you are the Fitch and he/she is the McQueen? Are opposite sides really attracting each other or do we need to have the same personalities to maintain a healthy relationship?
The epic Blair Waldorf once said in GG "People don’t write sonnets about being compatible. Or novels about shared life goals and stimulating conversation. The great loves are the crazy ones. L’amour fou." Is the crazy love the stupid one?
I think it is about choices.. It is about what you want in your relationship. Some people say it is better to find someone who loves you more than you love him. That will really make you better off. Less pain. You’ll be treated like a princess. He’ll be your personal slave. I-do-anything-to-make-you-happy-type. This type of realtionship mostly comes with the friendship. You became best friends of each other. You understand and complete each other as well.. That makes sense.. and your future husband’s or your bf’s being your bff at the same time is a big privilege.That is a logical choice. However, is the logical choice the right choice?
But is this what you want? Or you want such a passionate relationship? Like hop-on hop-off tours? One day so calm and quite and full of love? The other day stormy and full of hate? Which one is the true love? Nobody can answer it.. Since you can not leave each other, does it mean that you meant to be together? Or meant to be = very good understanding of each other..
Both types of relationships have pros and cons. If you choose the friendship-based relationship is it safe way? or is it even more dangerous since you are not fully in love, there is the possibility that you can have crush on other people? On the other hand, the passionate relationship can hurt you more.. It can suck your blood. Every time a new challenge? Every fight makes you a bit more tired and one day you can come to the finish line. But there is too much love in this case… However, I have a bigger question in my head:
IS PASSION OVER-RATED?
Can’t we have the both? A relationship that you love your partner from the deepest of your heart, you truely rely on him, but at the same time your relationship tastes still so good and so fresh??
Many questions.. No answers!
Advice from the writer: Follow your heart but take your brain with you!